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Post by Stella Luce 333 on Thu Jun 19, 2014 9:07 pm

Are you talking about the long distance relationship with the guy in a different state?
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Post by cya6 on Thu Jun 19, 2014 9:08 pm

That was a long time ago.  A few years.  It's happened again.
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Post by eseiprahs on Fri Jun 20, 2014 11:31 am

I don't know how you could want to even do a long distance relationship. I would not be able to do it. Then again, I don't think I could do a relationship in general.
 By releationship I mean dating haha
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Post by cya6 on Fri Jun 20, 2014 4:41 pm

The problem now is not with a romantic relationship.  It's with a platonic friendship.  He doesn't quite understand that, however.
My current relationship is very happy and semi long distance.
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Post by eseiprahs on Fri Jun 20, 2014 7:47 pm

He wants to date instead? I had that problem just this past year. This friend would not let up that he wanted us to date.
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Post by cya6 on Fri Jun 20, 2014 10:15 pm

He's completely obsessive, dependent, controlling, manipulative, depressed...
I could go on.  It's a delicate situation.
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Post by Snickie on Fri Jun 20, 2014 10:16 pm

I found myself another creeper.

I was at my church on Tuesday night helping distribute packages with meals for kids on the state's Free and Reduced lunch plan during the school year.  One of the people helping there was a big guy.  He's about 19 I guess, and I know he was held back in high school because he told me.  Anyway, we started talking about Lecrae (Christian rap artist), and like an idiot I gave him my phone number because I'm naïve and stupid.  Later that night he texts me and wants to go out with me.  Keep in mind that I had just met the guy about four hours prior.  I told him no. He told me he was lonely and that nobody ("nobody!") cared about him. After I kept saying no, he asked if I could hook him up with somebody. I said no to that too.

The next morning I texted my exboyfriend about it because we're sort of kind of friends (and I was stupid for breaking up with him instead of trying to figure out how to fix it -- proof that I could not do a "long-distance" (two hour drive) relationship -- but I can't tell him that because it's socially inappropriate I think).  He gave me some good advice and now I have Creeper Boy (I forgot his name lol) blocked from calling me.  Ignoring his texts seems to be a good way to get him off my back, at least temporarily.

The test will be Sunday when I have to go to church and possibly (probably) see him and his desperate and lonely soul.

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Post by cya6 on Fri Jun 20, 2014 10:20 pm

God, guys like that are the worst.  So hard to let them down in a way that isn't mean.
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Post by Snickie on Sat Jun 21, 2014 9:34 pm

Yeah, but it has to be done. I'm not interested in dating him. I don't have many friends in my hometown and the few I do have are pretty much all in commited relationships. I used to know his exgirlfriend back in middle school and he asked me for her contact information but I guess he missed the part where it's been 7 years since I last talked to her.

Anyway, I'm trying to go nuclear on him.

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Post by Stella Luce 333 on Tue Jun 24, 2014 7:43 am

Do any of your friends go to the same church, or can you persuade somebody to go with you? I’m not saying it’ll stop him from talking to you, but having somebody else there might help…
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Post by eseiprahs on Tue Jul 01, 2014 7:49 pm

I remember an old friend of mine asked if I wanted to go bowling with him and his friend or something, and he tried pressuring me into going by saying his friend was suicidal and it would mean a lot to him. It was just like...what

Random kinda, but church reminded me of him becuase he's in school to be a priest or pastor.


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Post by Snickie on Tue Jul 01, 2014 8:24 pm

I always go with my parents.
I haven't seen him in the past two weekends fortunately.  Two weeks ago because we went to the really crowded service and slipped in and out.  Last weekend because I was out of state.


Oh, and by the way, XaJuWriMo has started. Wink

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Post by eseiprahs on Wed Jul 02, 2014 9:49 pm

Sorry for posting a little angst...because I don't normally do on here ...but I'm seriously so pissed and annoyed by my dad and the fact he can seriously be so sh*tty.
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Post by Stella Luce 333 on Thu Jul 03, 2014 8:55 pm

Is everything ok? I think my dad’s having a midlife crisis, so I’m happy to compare notes…lol
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Post by eseiprahs on Thu Jul 03, 2014 9:36 pm

Well, let's just say that my dad has made it more clear than ever before that he does not really care about my sisters, mom, and I. That sounds really angsty and stupid, but I have always sort of felt that kind of vibe from him, and he has made it quite evident as of late.
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Post by No.1JerlitaFan on Wed Jul 09, 2014 7:49 am

I don't really know you (since I've never met you in real life) but on XL you seem like a really great person and I'm glad that you're a part of this community. So if your father can't find it in himself to care about you and the rest of your family, then I'm quite sure that it's he who is missing out on some great people.
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Post by eseiprahs on Thu Jul 10, 2014 8:25 pm

Aw thanks girl dude dude girl! Yeah, he's just a smug loner who misses out on joys of life and wants us to be negative and smug just like him. I'm honestly just tired of his negativity and his wishing we were people that we aren't. Not my fault we all are different people than he wants.
 For my mom's birthday he just told her to buy herself something she thought was useful.
Okay, my mom hates buying things for herself, so what the hell are you talking about? You're just a lazy douchebag.

Alright. Rant over I think.


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Post by No.1JerlitaFan on Thu Jul 10, 2014 11:01 pm

I'm sorry, I have absolutely nothing to contribute after your rant, other than right at the beginning you said "thanks girl".....but i'm a dude. xD
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Post by eseiprahs on Fri Jul 11, 2014 7:48 pm

I know you're a dude but I think I for some odd reason put girl...maybe I texted that or something and then put it in the post? I don't know. Or maybe I was half asleep who knows.

I have a habit of answering the phone even while I'm stil asleep. Just did that today actually during my nap and I guess he just hung up on me because I wasn't making sense xD

Long story short: I know your gender and everyone else's on here, but I never think about it when I type girl/dude.

I know I've been called a boy on here like two times by new-comers. I remember one user whom I thought was a girl for the longest time and then he turned out to be a boy and I was flabbergasted. I forget who it was though...
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Post by No.1JerlitaFan on Fri Jul 11, 2014 10:56 pm

Yeah it gets a little hard to tell sometimes, and oh okay, I just thought that maybe for some reason I was giving the impression that I was a girl. xD
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Post by Snickie on Sun Jul 13, 2014 8:19 pm

If it makes you feel better, I never once considered that you might be a girl. Smile

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Post by eseiprahs on Mon Jul 14, 2014 4:53 am

At first I thought you were talking to me, Snicks. I was like I AM A GIRL.
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Post by Stella Luce 333 on Mon Jul 14, 2014 7:43 am

I’m terrible with genders online…

Essy, I think it’s amazing that you can stay positive while dealing with your father’s negativity! I wish I could be like that…I let negative things get to me way more than I should…
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Post by No.1JerlitaFan on Thu Jul 17, 2014 10:19 am

Funny how we're all confused but our genders are listed right under our profile pictures.

I truly do respect that, Ese, I myself have always had trouble when it comes to family matters. I always get so "down" even when I try to stay strong. Physical pain is a lot easier to deal with than emotional.
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Post by eseiprahs on Sat Jul 19, 2014 10:40 am

Aw thanks guys! I'm just happy I'm going back to school soon. Plus, I'll be in a house AND NOT A DORM YES YES YES.

I'm also excited for my new body mod I'm going to get done with one of me friends : D
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