General Chat 2014

I'm selling my soul to a psychotically clingy, obsessive 15 year old.
help me

I hope everyone is alright! I just received my midyear results and it was rather okay, though I need to buck up

@cya - Are you alright? What happened there? If you need someone to talk to, I'm here! (Though I don't reply quickly)
Orphan Black basically starts off with the main character witnessing the suicide of someone who looks exactly like her. The main character then assumes the identity of the dead woman, and sh*t goes downhill from there. That's the simplest summary I can give. Any more details and I'll probably spoil the whole show

My manic depressive, paranoid, anxious, borderline anorexic, suicidal friend from Ohio has been suffering from long term mental health issues for a while now.  Used to be there were a thousand reasons for them all, which all looped back to the fact that he was mentally unstable and needed help.  The problem isn't with his life, it's with his head.
But lately he's transferred the causes of all his problems to ME.  Because he used to have a crush on me but it's warped to this weird obsession.  The only way I can talk him down is by promising that one day the two of us will be able to live together and do everything together, forever.  I HATE making promises I know I can't keep, but I don't have an option here, it's either that or he gets suicidal.
Of course, he's told me that he wouldn't kill himself because he knows that would really hurt me.  Which is true, but now I'm also the only reason he's still alive probably.  He tells me that it actually physically hurts when I'm not around for him to talk to, and that he misses me all the time, and that the reason he's always upset is because I'm not there physically for him.  He gets upset when I talk to people while talking to him, he gets upset when he learns I was talking to one of his friends without him.  He doesn't like it when I leave the house or are away for too long.  I can talk to him all day and he still gets upset when I want to play a game or two of League of Legends with my boyfriend at the end of the day.  He constantly needs me to be around or he gets upset and depressed.

He needs help, but I'm having a hard time convincing his friends that, and they're my only hope, because I can't get in touch with his family or anything due to the fact that he lives half a country away.
It's a sh*tty situation...

That’s a really tough position to be in…I think the only thing you can do is to keep reaching out to his friends, & hopefully sooner or later one of them will help him…

Is it possible to contact his parents by finding out info from his friends? It's tough, but you can try

I'm back guys...never fear. I know you were all fearful like OH NO WHERE IS ESSY WHAT IS XLAIR WITHOUT HER OH NO

ESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSY

HI HI HI!! How are you? (:

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Just got back from a really nice weekend with my boyfriend to deal with the fact that I hadn't talked to my friend the whole time which had made him severely depressed

/Why would that affect him so much? He must have known you were preoccupied

He did
Doesn't stop the fact that I am the object of his obsession, so, according to him, it physically hurts when I'm not around

Sounds like he has an unnatural obsession with you...

It's unhealthy.  He lives halfway across the country, so I can't even physically be there for him.
he's also super depressed, anxious, paranoid, has terrible self image and eating disorders, and I get to be the focus of all of that

I would tell his parents or his friend(s)

I am.  I'm trying to get his friends to tell his parents.  Get things off my back a little

That's a good idea.

I'm watching Justice League on Netflix!

I’m hoping to catch up on Agents of Shield this summer…

Essy is stressy

Everything ok?

Yeah, it's just that I started a new job at a diner and I requested to work at night at a hostess before becoming a waitress. Instead they made me a morning waitress haha. So...the complete opposite of what I requested.

That's too bad. Hope everything works out for you at your job.

Thanks!

I just applied some sparkly new acrylics to my nails!

Hmmm...

F*cking 0-2 in fantasy LCS.  AND TSM lost.  F*ck me

What what??